I’m worried about this whole “living my dream” thing. In fact, sometimes I think about it late into the night, and I get scared. Sometimes I shake a little. That’s how nervous all this makes me. As silly as it sounds, I even get anxious over this little inconsequential blog. But I suppose that’s just the way I am, ha ha. However—and this is important—the fear actually confirms that I’m on the right track. Here’s one of my favorite quotes: “if your dreams don’t scare you, they’re not big enough.” And sometimes, all my dreams downright terrify me…yet, it’s that terror that drives me to keep going. I’ll probably make a longer post in the future about this quote and how much it has transformed me.
But anyway: back to the worry and fear. See, I’m afraid that
I won’t get a following, you know? I’m worried that no one at all is interested
in what I have to say. But, I have a plan. I know that it’s going to take a lot
of hard work and elbow grease for this little blog to attract some followers,
and I think the best way to draw ‘em in is to post quality content, every day.
So, that’s one of my new goals: every day, I am going to post something of
quality. It might be a review of a neat gizmo I bought, or it might be
something inspirational. It might be some artwork I made, or—once my tripod
comes in—it might be a video of me performing a song. Whatever the case, I know
that if I post quality content every day, eventually people will find me and
follow me, and hopefully I can make someone’s life a tad more interesting.
“If you build it, they will come.” Right? Right. Sounds good
to me.
Okay! So, now that I’ve established that, it’s time for
today’s post.
Recently, I purchased a book for my Kindle Fire called The Type-Z Guide to Success: A Lazy Person’s
Manifesto to Wealth and Fulfillment by Marc Allen, author of The Millionaire Course. In the near
future, I will post a full review, but for now, I’d like to address a specific
exercise Allen describes in his book that has particularly impacted me in a
positive way. In The Type-Z Guide to
Success, Allen details the four-step process that has enabled him to
succeed. The steps are 1) Dream, 2) Imagine, 3) Believe, and 4) Create. The
exercise that I will be sharing today is outlined in the first step of the
process.
This exercise is called the “Ideal Scene.” The instructions
are pretty simple: get out a piece of paper (or, if you’re like me, open a new
Word document) and describe your life in five years if everything you could possibly want has gone your way. That’s it.
Spend a paragraph or two outlining your future home, family, career, car, and
whatever other achievements you can think of.
Now, as I’ve mentioned earlier, there are a lot of fears and doubts scuttling around
in my brain. And almost as soon as I began typing my own ideal scene, they all
began saying “no, you can’t, that’s a stupid dream, you’ll never make it, it’s
impossible,” ad nauseam. They almost stopped me, too.
But, see, here’s the thing: I have spent way too much of my life listening to
those damn voices, and you know what I have to show for it? A big fat load of nothing, that’s what. And as those
voices were clamoring for me to give up, that quote came back to me: “if your
dreams don’t scare you, they’re not big enough.” I repeated that quote to
myself, and for once, all the voices shut up. A few minutes later, my ideal
life was summed up in a couple of paragraphs.
I won’t share my ideal life here. Not yet. But let me tell
you something: I read that document every day, and every single time, I am
filled with such inspiration and passion that I can hardly contain it. See,
before I had sat down and typed out everything I wanted—everything, not just the reasonable stuff—I was in a sort of rut. I
had a vague idea of what I wanted, but I lacked the jump start I needed to get
going. Now, however, I just have to reread that page on my computer and I am supercharged
with energy. Something about seeing my dreams typed out in front of me was just…moving.
That’s the best word for it. Honestly, that one little exercise is what gave me
the boost to actually get this blog out of fantasy land and into the real
world.
So, the takeaway from today’s post is simply this: try the “Ideal
Life” exercise (be sure to ignore any negative voices, because what have they ever
done for you, hm?) and see if it changes the way you think about your dreams.
Maybe—hopefully—it will inspire you and revitalize you just as it has done for
me. Let me know how it works out! That comment box down there is all yours!
I love this post. And your first one. I am definitely going to try this because I think you nailed it on the head. People have these big dreams and daring ideas but we're all terrified to look too closely at them because we, as we all know, are our own worst critics. This journey you're beginning has inspired me, Jordy. And I say that not just as your friend, but as a true fan. I'll be cheering you on. And in the mean time, I'm going to do this "Ideal Life" exercise. I like a challenge :)
ReplyDeleteKaitlin, thanks so much for taking the time to stop by. Your friendship and support means more to me than words can say. Let me know how your ideal life turns out!
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